Wounded
The most harmful people are those who live in denial of the damage they went through during their childhood. They either don’t know, or they know but can’t face it. They live in the lie that all is OK, despite who is being hurt in the process. I have always had compassion for those who are fucked up mentally and emotionally, addicts, or those abandoned by society or themselves, serial killers, rapists. And don’t get me wrong, I am not saying what they do is OK, but if you dig deep, you will find a wound that is so deep and painful that it affected their ability to love and have compassion. They couldn’t face it, so they decided to punish society for its silence against the abuse they went through, and they kept their eyes closed and their mouths shut. The same goes for those who are emotionally abusive, who can’t love or be vulnerable because they were deeply wounded: avoidant, narcissistic, anxiously attached, and the list is long. They have been through something that changed t...
